Refusing to forgive your offender is self destructive, that’s why our Lord Jesus Christ through his teachings emphasizes strongly on this subject. Example of such was demonstrated in Luke chapter 7 from 36:50 where Jesus Christ forgave a harlot after she became remorseful by making use of both her tears and Alabaster ointment to wash and clean Jesus Christ feet.
As a true Christian, its imperative that we forgive our offenders always, because to err is human and to forgive is divine. There are notable inhibitors that weaken individual spiritual strength when a Christian consistently refuses to forgive.
More also, the irreconcilable state of a person who hardly forgives offenders unknowingly through such behavior closes door to Jesus merciful glory and many blessings upon their lives..
In conclusion, it truly pays to forgive your brother, neighbor when he or she I’ll work against you, because forgiving your own brother or neighbor depicts true understanding of Christendom teachings..